Posted by: David D. Daggett | September 17, 2007

What Are Your Anchors?

What Are Your Anchors?

     Do you know the “meaning” in your life? Of course, there is a seemingly endless supply of books on self-help, philosophy, religion, get rich quick, and so on. They all seem to try to define life for you. But the trick to finding “meaning” is that you have to find it yourself. Of course, that is what I always say I like so much about swimming, biking, and running alone – it gives me time to further and continuously define myself.

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     Unfortunately a large number of people kind of stumble through life and never really have any purpose. I tend to believe that your purpose is more of a choice or conscious decision. So, I think you either consciously decide what you are, or you unconsciously stumble forward.

     I suppose you are getting older when you spend more and more time advising young people on their career goals. I usually walk them through a decision tree sort of process that significantly narrows down the options so that life doesn’t seem quite so daunting. This process always starts with considering what they want their anchors in life to be.

     These anchors become the ongoing foundation for everything we do and what we are. We should actually live, breathe, and feel so strongly about them that we are able to bring our self to tears almost any time just by reflecting on them. Once we believe in them that strongly, they become our guiding lights on our path through life.

     I have been able to describe my life anchors fairly specifically in three or four main categories. Mine are family, spiritual, professional, and physical. I say “three or four” because to me spiritual and physical are interwoven internally in a way that they actually become one.

     Once the anchors are defined, everything seems to fit better and “meaning” seems to come together much more readily. Then, everything in life is grounded by these anchors and they become the filters through which we choose life and all of its options and good possibilities. Moreover, it really makes most things a whole lot simpler because you have defined and know who you are.

     As a closing thought, please remember that although you can certainly consciously define your “meaning,” life remains more of a journey than a destination. The journey simply has a map that makes the trip better.

Let’s give meaning to the journey,

David

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  2. […] and allows me to reflect on who I am and who I want to be. M y resolutions always fit within my anchors of Family, Physical, Professional, and Spiritual. The ride seems to morph them […]

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  4. […]      Who do you consider successful? It is interesting to look around and see who really appears to be successful to us. I assume this probably varies from person to person based on our own make up and our personal anchors. […]

  5. […] Recall that I believe that the spiritual part of life is an anchor that is fully integrated the physical, including competitive, aspect. Tying them together, I […]

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  7. […]       We had a great experience on Sunday. Our church, New Philadelphia Moravian, had our annual Family Day service up at Laurel Ridge Camp. It is always a special service and a fun day. It is also an opportunity for me to combine some of my personal anchors. […]

  8. […] In cycling we wear a helmet for protection. In life, what is our helmet? Perhaps our anchors are our protection. Our anchors are the framework for our lives. If our anchors are in place, we […]

  9. […] dreaming, of Hawaii, what was right in front of us? For our family, it was a weekend full of our anchors. We all had a lot of physical activity. The kids love riding their bikes, and I now have to run […]

  10. […] For holidays we intentionally combine our spiritual, physical, and family anchors. We have a great time and enjoy each other. Each holiday seems to pass too quickly, but they always […]

  11. […] We have previously discussed Anchors in life, and I would suggest that if your anchors are intact then you are on track for finding true […]

  12. […] My yearly resolutions tend to be aspirational in nature in a attempt to make me a better husband, father, lawyer, and athlete. This year I thought of several things that are definitely needed, but are a bit more tangible and […]

  13. […] by actively seeking mentors and mentess in the various aspects of our lives. If we start with our anchors, then we intentionally seek out mentors and mentees professionally, athletically, spiritually, and […]

  14. […] must “exercise” anything that we want to do well. This includes all of the aspects of our anchors including our families, our profession, our fitness, and our religion. They take work, or exercise, […]

  15. […] again, looking back at our personal anchors of family, fitness, profession, and religion provides the answer. like an ironman on race day we […]

  16. […] Fortunately, our kids’ school is also off for a long Presidents’ Day weekend. So, we combine anchors and head to the mountains for a romantic weekend for […]

  17. […] process of making choices can be paralyzing. Getting in a habit of filtering choices through the anchors in our lives can make the process simpler and many times directs those choices as a natural […]

  18. […] We have previously discussed having anchors in life. My anchors include professional, family, physical, and spiritual aspects of my life. I have […]

  19. […] the most critical elements in fulfillment and satisfaction. I have long been an advocate of “The Four Anchors,” but thought that was a bit of a personal concept. Recently, I read the book The Longevity […]

  20. […] progress along a natural continuum. We previously explored some of these issues in looking at our anchors in life. That certainly isn’t to say that the integration doesn’t have its fit and starts, it […]


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